Irene and IreneE. (the inner-muse of Irene) offer their insights on the care of muse and mortal. They make suggestions for writing, play and travel. Irene and IreneE. also make recommendations for books, movies, and all things a muse and her mortal may need or desire. Their wish and purpose for this blog is that it motivates your inner-muse and you.
May you write in passionate bliss.
Bliss out friends!
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
TMS (Too Much Stuff) and an ADHD disorder
As I alluded to in my previous post, I have a lot of beautiful and quite a lot of not so beautifulthings. Just things. Dozens of vintage cameras, dozens of tin thermometers and dozens upon dozens of pottery items.
Only some of which I really like. I still have a thing for McCoy planters and a few other McCoy items.
Mostly I have way too much stuff!
The solution seemed simple enough at the time, have a combination yard and collector sale. Yard Sale items outside, and collector items inside.
My brother, who helped me arrive at this solution also volunteered to come up to help me execute the solution. He's been an incredible help! For the past two weekends, there has been a yard and collector sale at my home. He helped the first weekend and Mom came down for the second.
And it was a huge success!
Although I still have a lot of stuff - I have less now. I was just a bit naive about some of the details it took to execute the plan.
For example, at my brothers suggestion, he and I emptied out the garage of items not for sale. These items are now stacked in places around my home awaiting my attention. Like I can miss this huge pile of papers in front of my office or the other stack just outside my office? I look at these stacks of things I still need to sort and I freeze up.
It's just too much to face and a real slap-in-the-face with the reality of my ADHD. Now, I'm bright enough to understand that ADHD is very real, and that like any other challenge, one can compensate with other strengths and even find ways to overcome some of the challenges. I even know on a cognitive level ways to overcome many of the challenges. But just looking at the stacks of stuff and I feel as if my brain functions are switched off like a light bulb. I'm not looking to cure myself of ADHD, I actually embrace many of the aspects it brings to me, especially my creativity.
There are many muse with ADHD to be sure! It's just I've got to tackle this project one step at a time, or in this case, box at a time. Yes, cognitively I understand it, but looking around my home at the disorder brings to mind the challenges of ADHD and why it is considered a disorder.
Stay tuned as I put myself and home back in order.
I enjoy reading, writing and gardening. I fill my garden with scented flowers although I can't get tuber roses, one of my favorites, to grow in my region.
I read just about everything I can get my hands on but have a preference for romantic comedy.
I love to travel, even if its just for a weekend to my Mom's in PG or my Brother's in Santa Barbara.
I make my bed daily and name the dust bunnies as they mature.
I'm mom to 2 children. My daughter, Kasmira, is away at college in Florida and my son is in high school. My son, Red, has Autism.
I also have a canine son, Mick and 3 feline sons; Furball, Furry and Nacho. Mick shares his insights about autism in his own blog, http://mickandboy.blogspot.com/ and we collaborate on a website, http://mickandhisboy.googlepages.com/home
Were a good team!
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